Hello, my name is Alvin and I'm in a 12 step group called codependents anonymous. What is Codependency you may ask?   Maybe you have heard of Alanon or Naranon.   These are support groups  where people who are in an interpersonal relationship with an addict to alcohol or drugs and the behavior of this person has affected them. Realizing that that this is not limited to alcoholics or addicts Coda was formed. Here are some Characteristics.   http://www.coda.org/tools4recovery/patterns-new.htm   I …